Sunday, May 10, 2009

MOTHER'S DAY


Some people have told me that I looked like my mother. I just wish I was (half) the wonderful Mother she was. She taught me about love and self-sacrifice, hard work and doing your best. She loved her children & gave us all a sense that we were special to her and that she was proud of each of us. That is the goal I strive for ... to let my sons know that they are special to me and that I am proud of them both.

On Mother's Day each year I always think about the fact that I was blessed to have had a Wonderful Mother. Her life ended way too early when she died at the age of 50 from heart disease. I was only 25 yrs. old at the time with two little boys (one 3 and the other only 16 months). They never got to know what a Wonderful Grandma she was. She didn't get to see them grow up and turn out to be fine young men....... nor did she get to see other grandchildren born after she was gone and even great grandchildren. I miss her terribly to this very day and think of her so often and wish I could put my arms around her one more time and tell her how VERY special she was and what she meant to me and to so many others that loved her dearly.

Friday, May 1, 2009

A Special Day for A Special Person


May 1, 1919 was a very special day. Vernis Marie Cooper was born. In 1938 she married Kenneth Lowell Vermillion. In 1942 their first son Kenneth Robert was born and then in 1946 they had another son named John Paul. I didn't get to know her until 1968 when I married John but I was blessed to know her for 37 years. She passed away in July 2005. If there was only one thing I could say that I learned from her (because there were so many) was how completely generous a person could be. She was always "giving".... of her time, her money, her love, her possessions and mostly of herself. She loved her 3 grandchildren and one great-grandchild and since I lost my own mother in 1976, I was certainly glad that she got to see her grandchildren grow up. She always treated me like a daughter and I miss her to this day and when May 1st rolls around each year I think of her and what her life meant to so many.